Sufjan Stevens’ “Fourth of July” Lyrics Meaning

Important to note from the onset is that the song “Fourth of July” is not only based on an actual event in Sufjan Stevens’ life but furthermore witnessing his mother pass away. She was someone who, perhaps most simply put, neglected to take care of him to the point that Sufjan didn’t really know her

You can view the lyrics, alternate interprations and sheet music for Suftjan Stevens's Fourth of July at Lyrics.org.

And it is based on that premise that the vocalist takes what can be interpreted as a condemnatory and even somewhat patriarchal tone over the addressee. If a listener doesn’t know that these lyrics reflect the words from a son to his mother, they aren’t likely to figure out from the lingo/mood exhibited, with the singer referring to the person he’s singing to as being “little” and things of the sort. 

Or phrased alternately yet again, the wording doesn’t read like it is being relayed from one individual to another who has natural seniority over him. And knowing the background of the narrative, the implication is that Sufjan did in fact view his mother as a “little dove” or “little hawk”. In his eyes, she was his junior in the sense that he felt his mom’s life path denied her the opportunity to fully grow.

Key Sentiment of “Fourth of July”

But that is not to say that the primary sentiment being put forth is one of pity or anything like that. Perhaps a natural psychological response to having a parent pass away is just the simple realization that our own demise is inevitable. And so it reads with “Fourth of July”, i.e. the vocalist concluding throughout it all that “we’re all going to die”. 

Also, it can be gleaned that Stevens did possess some type of admiration for his mom. He apparently understood that his own artistic light, if you will, was inherited from her.

Now concerning the title of this song, if there’s one aspect of it that is ascertainable, it would be that in some way, shape or form Sufjan is equating the titular holiday with death. And in somewhat of an elaborate, poetic way, what he seems to be saying is that the passing of the addressee was through some fault of her own. 

So when he asks her “what did you learn from… the Fourth of July”, the implication is that the way Stevens personally perceives or interprets said holiday contains some type of important life lesson therein. But such is not expounded upon. So maybe it would take someone who is deeply familiar with his artistry to understand what the singer means exactly in that regard.

Song’s Emotion

Also concerning the emotion of this piece – and there is in fact a lot contained therein – you can see that whereas witnessing the addressee’s death has a profound impact on the vocalist  and she is obviously someone he knows well, there is also this sense of stoicism. 

And the way that Sufjan has explained the event in non-musical terms also indicates that he was perhaps most disturbed by the fact that he just didn’t feel as strongly for Carrie passing away as he believes he should have.

“Well, you do enough talk
My little hawk, why do you cry?
Tell me, what did you learn from the Tillamook burn?
Or the Fourth of July?
We’re all gonna die”

Sufjan Talks about Mom’s Death

According to Sufjan, his mother died quickly from stomach cancer. He described her condition in the ICU as one in which despite being on a plethora of drugs was in so much pain. Stevens went on to describe his mother’s death as “devastating”. According to him, while she lay almost lifeless in the hospital, he was filled with just one goal – to let her know how much he loved her.

And apparently he achieved that goal because he talked of there being a “reciprocal deep love and care” between him and his mother in her final hours of life.

Sufjan Stevens

Sufjan Stevens is a singer and multi-instrumentalist from Michigan whose official discography commenced in 1999. 

Whereas he may not be a household name, by all accounts Sufjan is a skilled musician. For instance, the LP this song is derived from, 2015’s “Carrie & Lowell”, broke the top 10 of the Billboard 200 and UK Albums Chart, in addition to being certified silver across the pond. 

And as impressive as those accomplishments may be, they still don’t rightfully do justice in terms of indicating how well the project was received by professional music critics. It was officially ranked as one of the ‘best albums of 2015’, the decade, etc. by a number of such organizations.

Fourth of July

“Fourth of July”

Asthmatic Kitty, a label that Sufjan Stevens co-founded at the start of his career, put out “Fourth of July” as part of “Carrie & Lowell” on 31 March 2015.  

Carrie, as noted earlier, was the name of Sufjan’s mom. And the man she got married to after breaking up with his dad was Lowell Brams, who is second co-founder of Asthmatic Kitty.

Sufjan Stevens wrote “Fourth of July”, and the track was produced by a musical friend of his who goes by the tag of Doveman.

To note, “Fourth of July” was never issued as a single. However, it appears to be amongst Sufjan Stevens most heralded tracks.

53 Responses

  1. Call me Thistle says:

    Sobbing to this song as my mother also passed on the fourth of July and this song just hits a little harder when you relate to the situation deeply. Like when you have so much love for your mom but it feels there’s just a connection missing so you for some reason are fully in sync with each other and it just.. it feels like a deep dark pain that will cloud over you eventually.

    Went on a ramble, but love this song so much <3

  2. Anonymous says:

    my mother is dying of cancer. i don’t know how long she has left. this song is the only thing that can make me cry. i don’t want her to go & i wish it was me

    • Anonymous says:

      hey luv im so sorry to hear that :,( prayers go to you and your family. i hope your mom gets better <3

    • Anonymous says:

      I feel so sorry for you if I lost my mum I would never be the same

    • Ari says:

      You don’t die for the people you love, you live for them. Live your life for the one that she couldn’t have. Give her peace in knowing that you have lived a good life. I send my love.

  3. Gabi says:

    My mother passed away from pancreatic cancer at the end of September and this song really makes me cry.. I miss her so much!

    • Lo A. says:

      My mom passed away 12 years ago on 3/25 from pancreatic cancer. Such a horrible thing to watch happen. Sending you lots of love!

    • Lisa says:

      My Mom died from pancreatic cancer as well, on September 6 of 2016. I still miss her every day. I hope all of you who have lost your Mom are healing, although I know grief never ends as long as we are living.

  4. Stupid says:

    This song makes me sob sm, The lyrics and now knowing what the song lyrics mean now I’m sobbing even more when I listen to this song, it makes me so upset. “were all gonna die” lyrics makes me so sad. it hurts me so much

    • Phia says:

      I completely agree, I’m not a very emotional person but I could cry for eternity whenever I hear the song. Fourth of July, where all going to die. We all know this but it just hits different

  5. Anna says:

    this song lives in my head. day and night. i might not relate to a mother passing away, but my dad commited suicide, so it feels like he is asking me some of the questions from lyrics. cant help it but cry. i wish my mom knew this feels fresh even tho it happened four years ago.

    • Andy says:

      Same…I hope you can find joy one hour at a time.

    • Lauren says:

      My dad commit suicide on May 28th, less than a month ago. I just found this song.. it’s hard to put into words how it feels to have a parent pass this way but somehow this song makes sense.

  6. Katie says:

    My grandad died of causes and I miss him so much

  7. Anonymous says:

    My dad passed… not even cancer not even a mother but this still hits. I hope it’s okay to grieve over it to this song

    • Anonymous says:

      My dad took his own life at the end of May..I’m grieving to this song as well. Certain aspects still hit

  8. Molly says:

    my grandmother died of pancreatic cancer right before my birthday and i miss her beyond words it’s been almost 5 years and it feels surreal, she was my #1 fan and my favorite person alive. this song makes me think of her and the memories :(. hope everyone else who lost a relative is finding comfort and is okay ❤️

    • Ari says:

      My grandma is also one of my favorite people. She isn’t dead, but she speaks of death a lot. Some nights I have vivid nightmares of her dying and I wake up in a cold sweat. I could relate to your comment and I hope you are doing well. Your Grandma would be proud that you are a strong and kind person.

  9. Sidnotvicious says:

    My freind just sent me this song when I started to listen to it I started to think about the night she almost killed her self…I’m so happy I saved her life ,life is precious.

  10. Lee Yoongi says:

    this song reminds me of my best friend Kotaro who took his life in his home on April 5, 2020, that was the worst day of my to have to find him hanging there and then holding his lifeless body in my arms for almost an hour before help came. I played this song when I visited him, I hope he heard it and knew I loved him more than anything in this world. I hope he knows how precious he was and still is to me, I Grew up with him so having him taken away from me really stung. This song to me makes me feel like he’s with me. Not only that but this song reminds me of my parents even though I never got the chance to even meet them, My father was murdered on October 17th, 2003 at 11:58 in the hospital my mother died on October 24th, 2003 at 12:00 am, 2 hours after giving birth to my brother and I. even though I never met them I listen to this and imagine them based on all the stories I’ve heard about them, it hurts but its comforting. it’s sad that I was born on the 24th because that is my Father’s birthday as well.

    sorry for the ramble I just wanted to vent a little.

    • Ally says:

      This is beautiful, I’m proud of you for expressing these emotions

    • purplefox says:

      oh my godh my birthday is on the 4th of April and this is so sad to read your story
      And it’s incredible to see how strong you’re. I wish u all the best things in the world

    • Phia says:

      I’m sorry for your loss, I’m crying right now I could never imagine life without my parents. I never met my biological father bu I’ve had many farther figures who I claim to be my dad, my life would never be the same if they died. I wish you the best in life and just remember, your parents are so proud of you, I don’t even know you but I know your a great person and deserve the best in life <3

  11. Anonymous says:

    hi! to those who are currently going through pain relating to the song, i wish you guys so much love and support. you all will make it through even though it’s hard. i wish you guys a speedy recovery <33

  12. sam says:

    My mom was in and out of my life for many years. She isn’t dying of cancer but I listen to this song everyday wishing she would love me. Everyday wondering why she left. I could never get her to tell me. It hurts badly… I wish she would just apologize or even explain…

  13. lesslovelet says:

    A friend of mine recommend this song, as I listen I can’t help but to cry because I remember my lolo. I still miss him that randomly late nights I thought of him. If only it wasn’t happened :'(

  14. Anonymous says:

    Although I didn’t have a parent pass away, the lyrics “did you get enough love my little dove” makes me cry so much. My situation is that I am so emotionally detached that anything that triggers any sort of trauma I have, I break down. Both my parents were never able to care for me emotionally so those lyrics really feel safe for me. Like a trusted parental figure asking me if I ever got enough love. I’m not sure. This was really irrelevant to the actual lyrics but I just wanted to share my experience.

  15. Anonymous says:

    Although I didn’t have a parent pass away, I feel so deeply to song. My dad has a job that requires him to be gone for 9-10 months out of 12. Growing up I’ve only had my mom and little sister. Because he was never there to help raise us, I’ve always been the one to look after my sister when my mom couldn’t. Now that he’s retired and back in my life I’m happy but I feel so emotionally disconnected from him.

  16. Anonymous says:

    I am real sorry to those who lost a loved one and i dont know if what i am saying is even making you feel any better because i have never lost somebody that i really loved. Although this song just hits differently to me. Sadly i am a big overthinker and currently it is 2 am and i am crying over the song. Allow me to explain; since i was really young my head would just start making scenarios where somebody i loved, or even me, die and just i start crying. So basically i cause my own trauma and since i have been doing it for quite a long time every time it happens again the breakdown is even worse. I have gone an entire crying because of that.

  17. Unknown… says:

    This song truly helps me cope with the death of a loved one right now <3

  18. Anonymous says:

    The night I heard this song was the night I had to put my elderly cat down. The lyrics describe how heavy it feels, although unreal. They had wrapped him in a soft blanket. I’ll always cry my heart out to this song

  19. Jen says:

    There are very few songs out there that can make me cry as easily as this one can. At first I thought he was singing of a lover or maybe a sister. That’s what it sounds like with the “my little dove” and all that.
    I can’t really relate that much except my dad and I found my grandmother dead in her home. She went very suddenly. She was my best friend.. Death is always devastating. And the line “we’re all gonna die” gives me anxiety every time I hear this song. Everything about this song makes me cry, from the lyrics to the tone to the sound of his voice. It’s so beautiful, but so sad…

  20. Anonymous says:

    I can clearly see, why this song is so relatable and precious….going through the comments…we all’ve suffered terrible irreversible losses. This song….only for for a few minutes takes us closer to the feeling when we are just about lose what was once was ours.

    That’s why it is so precious to me….

    Side note: I know this might seem odd but I hope this song never becomes popular and also god forbid ever reaches tiktok and such. It will be sad sad day if it does. Let’s collectively hope it doesn’t!

  21. Anonymous says:

    My grandmother’s sister died not so long ago, but the saddest thing was I had been so spoiled that day. And on the way to my grandmother’s my mother and father explained how they didn’t really want to be alive any more because of the horrible things I say to them. Soon after that my grandfather’s aunt passed away and even on that day I was a bit spoiled. I’ll never forgive myself for the cruelest things I have done. I’ve done nothing but hurt everyone that cares so much about me. I feel like the worst daughter in the world.
    The reason why the song is so gut wrenching to me is because I didn’t really get to know them. It also hurts so bad because I almost got admitted to the hospital on July, 3rd, 2022. I had to spend my fourth of July morning in the ER. The only thing that hurt was the look on my family’s faces. I’m hoping I’ll join my family members in a few years. I sure hope all of you are healing and living a better life and i’m truly sorry. <3 I promise to make the skies prettier for you all. If I don't make it I promise to watch over you.<3 I'm 12 years old, and looking to become an artist .
    Keep living don't give up Love you all!<3

  22. Anonymous says:

    This song makes me cry. Even though I don’t relate to the song as if someone passed. But every time I hear it I think about the time I wanted to end myself. And sometimes those thoughts come back. I had these thoughts for a longer time. And I always think about who would even care I was gone. I’m sending love to everybody who lost someone precious❤️

  23. M says:

    I have not lost my mom, but i love this song bc it shows that he really cared for his mom. My mother and i don’t have the best relationship she was very abusive so when I hear a good song about someones mother i can’t help but feel sad that my mother and i didn’t have a good relationship. Anyway love to all the people who lost their mother to something i hope that you get better everyday and i hope it gets easier as the days go by. <3

  24. X says:

    back in 2020 i lost my 3 remaining great grandparents from natural causes and i lost my girlfriend to suicide and all of that happened all within 3 or 4 months, i miss them all and i wish i spent more time with all of them.

  25. 7 says:

    sorry for your lost

  26. Phia ❀ says:

    I cry my heart out to this song, it reminds me of when I lost my grandfather and my cat, my cat-Shiro-was only two and he got hit by a car and I was up all night crying, my grandfather died July 2nd 11:34pm, he was in hospital before that since he had an injury and the hospital didn’t look after him properly so he passed away, it’s devastating how a small injury could end one’s life considering he survived skin cancer I was so sure he would come back home all healthy, I think I left my hopes a little to high…

  27. L says:

    this song reminds me so much of the terrible loss of my good friend. On Feb 8th 23 he took his life, hanging there days after cutting of our the contact. I wasn’t able to safe him, I feel so guilty. I hope he’s safe now. This song cuts deep and I can’t stop listening to it

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