Vanessa Carlton’s “White Houses” Lyrics Meaning

Needless to say, the lyrics of Vanessa Carlton’s “White Houses” are pretty deep. For the most part, they are both literal and symbolic at the same time. But the most important metaphor of all would be the title. 

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And all lyrics considered, what it would actually symbolize is an idealized perception of youth, i.e. our younger years being ideally perceived as picturesque, even though in many case of many individuals, such as the vocalist, they are not.

As the story reads, in her youth the vocalist resided in a domicile with some of her female agemates, five of them actually, as they all came of age together. The implication is that the lot each come from their own respective messed up backgrounds. 

So that would explain why even at such a young age, which appears to somewhere around mid-to-late teens, they have found themselves with such independence, i.e. an apparent lack of effective adult concern/supervision as they fend for themselves.

An Exciting Chapter in Narrator’s Life

For instance, in the first verse, the vocalist reveals that she ‘stays up too late’ and is ‘too thin’. The fact that she highlights those parts of the experience would imply that this was an exciting time in her life. But despite the excitement, it was a chapter in which she and her “strange new friends” were perhaps impoverished or dealing with some type of financial difficulty. This is something which is to be expected of teens living free from their parents. 

Indeed in the midst of their mutual hardship, they “promise each other” friendship “’til the end”, i.e. for life.

Also as is the norm at this stage of natural development, the young ladies find themselves, shall we say fraternizing with romantic interests. For as colorfully explained, not only is the usually naughty game of Spin the Bottle involved but also alcohol. And at this point, you probably have a sound idea where this story is headed.

Narrator Deflowers Herself

Now one of the clearest indications that this song is centered on youngsters is that the narrative is more of less highlighted by the vocalist losing her virginity in the bridge. Despite being an inexperienced girl / young woman, she was apparently wise enough to know at the time that what was transpiring, i.e. she getting into a serious romantic relationship with some dude, was less than ideal. 

But at the same time she’s caught up in the moment and given the aforenoted circumstances highly vulnerable. And it doesn’t necessarily appear that he is out to use her or anything like that. Indeed in the grand scheme of the lyrics, it can be ascertained that he’s just as young and dumb, so to speak, as she is.

Conclusion of “White Houses”

So now in her adulthood the singer is able to look back and see that yes, some mistakes were in fact made back in those days. She’s not judging anyone per se, but there is a hint of animosity behind some of her lyrics, for instance Vanessa noting that maybe her cohorts “were all faster”, i.e. wiser than she was. 

She also understands that when she did part ways with these individuals, despite promises that may have been made earlier that was the last time she would, or let’s say really wanted to see them. But once again going back to the title, what it seems Carlton is saying conclusively is that at the end of the day, even though these types of experiences may be common, it’s not something that she and her agemates actually talk about now that they’re grown. 

Rather the way they recount youth is akin to residing “in white houses”, i.e. being a lot more perfect than the experience actually was. Or explained alternatively, realizing that you made a mistake at a time when you were too naïve to really understand otherwise does not erase said mistake, no matter how hard one may desire or how much time transpires.

Lyrics of "White Houses" by Vanessa Carlton
What Vanessa Carlton said of "White Houses"

Facts about “White Houses”

This song was produced and co-written by Stephan Jenkins, a name some readers will recognize as the lead singer of alt-rockers Third Eye Blind. And the other co-writer would be Vanessa herself.

Another notable name involved in the composition of this song is Lindsey Buckingham. Lindsey is best known as a member of Fleetwood Mac. Lindsey plays the acoustic guitar.

Vanessa Carlton is a singer from a part of Pennsylvania known as Milford. She has been involved in music for virtually her whole life, which officially began in 1980, and her professional discography dates back to 2002. And this particular song is the lead and only single from her second studio project, Harmonium (2004), which went on to break the top 40 of the Billboard 200.

“White Houses” itself appeared on the Hot 100 but performed more impressively on Billboard’s Mainstream Top 40 list.

When this song first came out MTV and VH1, as well as a few radio stations, censored its lyrics.

Also in 2004, comedian Ashton Kutcher pulled a prank on Vanessa related to the lyrics of this song as part of MTV’s Punk’d series.

The music video to this track was directed by industry vet Sophie Muller.

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