Natalie Taylor’s “Surrender” Lyrics Meaning

“Surrender” is a song brought to us by American singer, Natalie Taylor. The song’s narrator (Natalie) clearly is addressing a romantic partner throughout the song. And as the song progresses, it becomes clear to the listener that the addressee and Natalie might currently no longer be together. However, it’s not made crystal clear how her romance with the addressee came to this point.

You can view the lyrics, alternate interprations and sheet music for Natalie Taylor's Surrender at Lyrics.org.

“Can we Surrender?”

The relationship’s deterioration has left Natalie in such a bad state. Since she and her lover’s relationship deteriorated, she’s been trying her best to be okay. However, she’s gotten to the point where she apparently can’t fight it anymore and wants her lover back. Hence in the song’s pre-chorus, we here are ask: “My love, where are you?”

Actually prior to the deterioration of the relationship, it appears Natalie struggled to let him stay even though things were hard. However, she eventually let him go. She regrets that now and just wants him back in her life. She can’t keep fighting this anymore and is therefore flying her “white flag” (which means she’s basically surrendering to it). She’s had enough and just wants them both to “surrender” and come back together.

Summary: Things weren’t going well between Natalie Taylor (the narrator) and her lover. This forced them to drift apart. However, she can’t take the separation anymore and surrenders by deciding not to fight against her love for him anymore. Simply put, she wants her ex lover back.

Natalie Taylor talks about this song

According to Taylor, “Surrender” happens to be a favorite of hers. She further revealed that she penned this emotional track along with songwriter, Jon Howard (whom she is married to).

Writing Credits for “Surrender”

Natalie and her husband are the song’s sole writers. Her husband, Howard also produced it.

Release Date

“Surrender” was released as far back as in October of 2015. However, it was only in 2020 that it met with global success. Simply put, it is what we call a bona fide sleeper hit. Its success was made possible after it appeared on multiple TV shows coupled with it going viral on the video-sharing platform TikTok.

45 Responses

  1. Anonymous says:

    Best song ever thank you Natalie

  2. sara says:

    lol this is a little bit too relatable

  3. brandi likes being sad. says:

    Honestly, haven’t been through this. But I feel like I truly understand. I also have a feeling this will happen to me in the future, I hope it does cuz, I like being sad.

  4. tea says:

    This is song is my story. I’ve surrendered years ago and I still cry almost every night

    • Patie says:

      I totally love this tune. And I love Natalie too. She is just different from the rest. A truly brilliant singer.

    • Jolene says:

      I love Natalie, her voice is so raw and you can feel the emotion. I love to sing this song myself because it’s just so good.

  5. Anonymous says:

    this song has so many emotions

  6. Anonymous says:

    The song is about her and her current husband not an ex partner . They were going through hard times and she was sick of fighting. The song is about both surrendering and coming together. Rebuilding! ✌

  7. Anonymous says:

    Even though some people can’t relate (me) I know we all feel her emotions through the song. It isn’t just a break up song it’s her saying “I need you, and I am more than missing you” which is really emotional.

  8. Tai says:

    Anytime I listen to the song it always remind me of my ex

  9. Anonymous says:

    Love it!

  10. Lynn says:

    This song is beautiful and you can feel her pain as she’s singing.

  11. Jenn O says:

    Just heard this song on a pin and had to find out who it was. I just LOVE the emotion it conveys-the words, her voice, the tempo of the song. Someone needs to play this song as I’m dying please…. really,! I think it would be super comforting.

    • Neena says:

      Same here! I fell into a pint rest hole until I came across one that used this song as it’s background tune and had to find it! It’s soooo hauntingly romantic! 😍

  12. Ngozi mabel says:

    This song makes me cry, cos I kinda relate it to the emptiness I feel since my brother passed on. It has a whole different meaning to me. We had to let him go in death although we wanted him to be very much around. But we had to surrender to the will of God, we surrendered to his death. We take solace in the fact that he is no longer in pains and that cancer / kidney failure has no grip on his body anymore. He won them totally. We miss u so much Kingsley Jnr. U were a very different personality. RIP

    • Anonymous says:

      My grandpa has chosen to stop his dialysis. He’s tired and done fighting. So I totally feel this. He has not yet passed on, but he will in the next day or two.. he can rest now.

  13. MaDumakudeN. N. says:

    I am currently going through a break up, it is hurting me a lot but I am tired of the fights. When I think about the love we have for each other I become so sure that I wants her back but when I think of how the relationship has drained me and how much I have been fighting for a happy relationship and still not getting I just feel like I am okay alone.

    • Kitten says:

      I totally understand this…
      Like,I have a really hard time understanding that my boyfriend actually cares about me… I told him I wanted to end the relationship because of it too, but I talked about it to him, because he’s everything to me.

      As for you, it’s totally fine to not be in a relationship!! You do you guy/gal! I support you from afar my friend. Good luck ^¬^

  14. Collen Mokono #SA says:

    Damn you good Natalie…
    I’ve been looking for this background lyrics before this song starts,I’m sure it’s a movie.

  15. brianna says:

    this brings me so much tears

  16. Anonymous says:

    I love this song …coz my name is also Natalie

  17. Victoria Omowunmi says:

    I can’t stop listening to this song infact I had to put it on replay which i usually do on any song am so in love with. It actually reminds me of a lover am yet to have in my life and it makes me wonder where on Earth he is. I pray every relationship going through trying times at the moment be restored in Jesus name. More grease to your elbow Natalie Taylor

  18. Anonymous says:

    This song is so good and makes me want to cry every time I hear it. To me it can also mean surrendering to society and becoming what other want instead of who you love to be.

  19. Lily says:

    This song has meant so much to me. My parents died tragically when I was 6 and I am then living by myself all the way to 14, then moving to my grandparents house. They died a year after my parents did, and I was by myself until I could work and pay for my own house. I haven’t been to college yet, sitting here at 21. I didn’t go to school for the last two years of college, its upsetting.

  20. Anonymous says:

    Im so tired.

  21. Coolshelsy says:

    What a song! Emotionally rendered. Every line communicates differently each time I listen to it. On repeat for weeks now. Kudos to the writers and the performer. Relatable as f**k

  22. Dumas says:

    I think Surrender can also be classified as a loss song.

  23. Anonymous says:

    I take this song as two lovers who part but the love is too strong to break them and this song is them coming back together, surrendering to their love for each other, despite bumps in the road.

  24. Kicky says:

    I only just came across this song, I was drawn by the first lyrics and continued listening, this song is how I feel about my childhood sweetheart 😓 going to listen to it again.

  25. Rando person says:

    I feel bad for her. I hope they get back together.

  26. Anonymous says:

    I never really liked this song from the beginning because I thought the beat of the songs were too hard for me to listen to but that day I put my songs to shuffle mode and it played surrender, I decided to leave it and let it play. Trust me av been playing that song for like ages now. Especially when I miss my ex a lot. I love the song and at times when I feel like feeling sad I just play it. I really love this song and I hope you get back with your ex lover Natalie because I know how hard you might have cried.

  27. SM says:

    The love of my life has played this on her social media on the day we made it official, our anniversary. And I cried when I seen it, I feel like I’m reading into it….we ended it earlier this year. I’m wrecked, am I reading too into it? –

  28. Anonymous says:

    This is the song my ex sent me when breaking ties with me. I never cared about it, but after listening and doing research about it. I want her back. Maybe she was telling me that she is surrendering not because she hates me, but because she is tired

    • Suzi Bear says:

      just listened for the 1st time, brought me to tears, im surrendering in so many areas in my life and its difficult, and yes there is HIM, i would have done anuthing to save , fix, or replay all those years, its so complicated and painful, love him? mire than i even realized myself , surrender … you can not make some obe love you, you can not get back lost time , beating ones self up is no solution, Surrender, find peace, let go, embrace the pain and accept the calm of surrender, true love never dies, it surrenders , i wave my white flag to the universe and all that ive been fighting for so long , I SURRENDER!!

  29. Anonymous says:

    hi i love this song and it makes me cry sometimes

  30. Suzi Bear says:

    just listened for the 1st time, brought me to tears, im surrendering in so many areas in my life and its difficult, and yes there is HIM, i would have done anuthing to save , fix, or replay all those years, its so complicated and painful, love him? mire than i even realized myself , surrender … you can not make some obe love you, you can not get back lost time , beating ones self up is no solution, Surrender, find peace, let go, embrace the pain and accept the calm of surrender, true love never dies, it surrenders , i wave my white flag to the universe and all that ive been fighting for so long , I SURRENDER!!

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