Meaning of “Friends” by Marshmello and Anne-Marie

“Friends” is a song by American music producer and DJ Marshmello along with English singer Anne-Marie. The lyrics of “Friends” center on the theme of friend zoning. FYI: Friend zone is the awkward situation where a friend of yours decides he/she wants something more than just friendship with you and asks for a romantic affair.

You can view the lyrics, alternate interprations and sheet music for Marshmello's Friends at Lyrics.org.

In the lyrics, the singer (Anne-Marie) gets super angry at her male friend for his numerous attempts to enter into a romantic relationship with her. Anne-Marie, who clearly isn’t interested in moving her friendship with the guy to another level, angrily tells him time and again that all she wants is friendship. She even goes as far as spelling the word “friends” (F-R-I-E-N-D-S) to him, so he can get it.

All in all, this song is basically one about friend zoning and unrequited love.

Lyrics of "Friends"

But are the lyrics of this track autobiographical?

The answer is a big YES. In an interview with the free daily English newspaper the London Evening Standard regarding this track, Anne-Marie shed some light on it. She said the lyrics of the song were inspired by a male pal of hers who tried multiple times being more than a pal with her. According to the singer, she had no interest in their friendship moving to the next level. She therefore told him in the face multiple times she wanted nothing more than friendship with him. In her London Evening Standard interview, she said never wants that male friend of hers to ever know that the lyrics of this song are about him. Why? To her, “it’s awkward”.

Friend Zone Anthem

In another interview with music website Genius, Anne-Marie called the song a “friend-zone anthem”. She said if you found yourself in the situation where you needed to friend zone someone, you could just send them this track and “everything will be sweet”.

Facts about “Friends”

  • The song was written by Anne-Marie and 7 other songwriters, including Marshmello. The other songwriters are: Richard Boardman, Jasmine Thompson, Sarah Blanchard, Eden Anderson, Pablo Bowman and Natalie Dunn.
  • The song’s production was handled primarily by Marshmello.
  • Working on this track was the first time both Anne-Marie and Marshmello had worked together. That said, it is worth noting that prior to working on this song, Marshmello remixed Anne-Marie’s 2016 hit Alarm. However, since the pair didn’t physically meet to work together, we don’t see that a collaboration.
  • “Friends” officially came out on February 9, 2018 as the 5th single from Anne-Marie’s debut studio album which goes by the title Speak Your Mind. On that same record is Anne-Marie’s global hit “2002“.
  • When the song initially came out, many felt Anne-Marie was spelling the word “F-R-I-E-N-D-S” wrongly because the alphabet “E” in the spelling can’t be really heard.
  • The track’s music video was directed by American music video director Hannah Lux Davis who is famed for working with such famous artists as Miley Cyrus, Demi Lovato, Lil Wayne and Ariana Grande.
  • On the UK Singles Chart, the song peaked at number 4. On the US Billboard Hot 100, “Friends” made it to the number 11 position.

Does “Friends” contain any samples?

This song doesn’t contain elements of any other song(s).

What musical genre is this song?

It fits perfectly into the categories of EDM and pop music.

8 Responses

  1. Katie says:

    i like this really good

  2. neki lik says:

    awesome

  3. 1-209-566-3959 says:

    lmao getting friend zoned sucks

  4. Tynesha says:

    He should have listened when she said she just wants to be friends. That must’ve sucked for him to hear that everyday when he ask “will you be my girlfriend” but she says no she only wants friendship.

  5. Savannah says:

    This song reminds me somewhat of my life. Supposedly there’s this boy who LOVES me. I’m not gonna say his name for privacy reasons(we’ll call him Brendan) but I used to like him (in a friendly way),but now I don’t hate him, I just dislike him. I don’t even wanna be his friend. I let it go the first time he asked me where i was going but the second time, well….i haven’t forgiven him. I’m barely close to letting it go. I will at some point. He didn’t tell me himself but other people did, “Savannah he likes you”, “Savannah he WANTS you!!!” please people just stop. Well…he is weird and I will never love him.

    He found out in math class. I didn’t tell him, someone else did then I told him. Girl must’ve had the best hearing ever because the girls I WHISPERED it to could barely hear me. She SCREAMED it. The entire class heard except for possibly him. Then she smiled and said, “He didn’t hear me. He has earbuds in. so i said, “Ïf he didn’t, dont tell him!” so she had a mischievous look o her face, got up, and screamed in his face, “Savannah doesn’t like you!”. He looked so confused but just laughed it off. He looked a tad bit sad.

    Whatever, i don’t care anymore. Whenever i would walk to McDonald’s with my friend, she would always see me look behind me. She knew exactly why too. She would always say,(Usually calmly)”Savannah calm down, stop getting so paranoid and no need to get anxiety. Don’t worry, he can’t hurt you. He may stalk you but he can’t hurt you. Don’t worry, please just don’t “She says something like that anyways. Ever sense he looked(stared) at me like he had BAD(not all involving pain. Yikes! Try to figure them out) intentions for me, I have been getting “anxiety” around him. My friends full out think he stocks me. My mom, her boyfriend, and at least one of her friends think we’re dating. They would say, “Savannah we’re older than you so talking about how much you don’t like someone and wishing you never met them and how you hate being around them obviously means that you love them and you’re dating. So ya! “I don’t know how my mom and really only adults got that but they just did. That was a long sentence. His first impression was actually really good but he ruined it 🙁

  6. May says:

    I love this song I have it memorized. My favorite line is the “1 2 3 4 5 6000 times” I also love the drawings that Marshmallow and Anne Marie did.

  7. Cupid says:

    I loved this song bc i was obssesed with this girl and i litralliy (my spelling is wrong)
    Went to her house and played i’m just in love with you at 1am then she played friends and i got hooked to the song

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